Dear Kyra,
I met him someone online over 2 years ago…and honestly, I don’t know how truthful he’s been with me. He says we were together in a past life. I sometimes wonder if it’s even him….or if I’m being played. Is he who he says he is? As it stands right now, I’m not talking to him at the moment. It’s killing me…should I keep this going, or end it?
“Lay it On-the-Line”, CA
b. September 22, 1975
His Birthday (as for what he’s told me, anyway…): January 29, 1972
Dear On-the-Line,
The man you’ve been having an online relationship with is only telling you part of the truth. He is somewhat who he says he is, but he is also distorting his circumstances. Jupiter and Neptune in Sagittarius make him prone to exaggeration, and your Libra cusp and Mercury in Libra combine to give you a trusting sense of naïveté. The presence of a Cancer Rising in your chart makes you emotionally intelligent, so trust your instincts on this one. Your sixth sense is strong. Your Cyber Beau has misrepresented the caliber of his profession, and he is already involved in a relationship. It looks like he lives with a woman who appears to be his wife and he keeps your relationship a secret. He does believe he knows you from a past life, but he can be somewhat delusional when it comes to romance, due to a Venus in Pisces (based on what’s in his chart and how it seems to describe what you say about his personality, it does look like he gave you his real birthday).
How can he carry on deceiving you about the details? He is highly imaginative and has the ability to convince himself that fiction is fact. His proclivity for preferring fantasy to reality is also the reason why he is able to have an online relationship with someone for more than 2 years without moving it forward in person. I think he subconsciously convinced himself that he was a Native American husband of yours from a previous lifetime to justify this furtive situation. Your past life memory is a genuine experience, but this man is not showing up as the one you’ve been looking for from that specific regression. Your North Node is in Scorpio and his is in Aquarius, which is one way of seeing that the past life connection between you is not as strong as he would like to portray. Is there any connection at all? Yes, his Moon in Leo and your Venus in Leo means that there is genuine romantic interest from both of you. Your Moon in Aries matches his Mars in Aries, and that makes for a very fiery sexual connection. Your mutual attraction on an emotional level combined with his storytelling capabilities and your charming gullibility made this situation almost unavoidable! However, if you keep this going, it will be more of the same and you would not likely end up having a real relationship with this man in the physical world because he is unavailable. Even if he was available, he’s too insecure to meet you in person for fear that you would reject him based on his appearance. You would be disappointed if you actually met him, as he is so different from the “character” he plays at being online. Real relationships are developed and cultivated in person, not through emails or texting.
What about his real relationship? Why does he stay in a situation where there clearly are problems? His partner is the breadwinner, he is having employment problems, and he has chosen to stay for financial reasons. Saturn in Taurus means that his greatest life challenges will revolve around money.
This online relationship has served the purpose of being a diversion from the mounting problems in your own marriage. We all seek emotional anaesthetics at times to cope with the pain of disappointments, but it seems like the anaesthesia has worn off and it’s time to face the reality that you, too, have been living in a fantasy.
“Dear Kyra”
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